Going Spiritual
When you read about the rich and famous “going spiritual”, e.g., going to meditation retreats, studying Buddhism in India, reading (and writing) Spiritual/New Age/Personal Growth [...]
Getting the Most out of Psychotherapy
While your first few psychotherapy sessions are a time for the therapist to gather information about you, it’s also an opportunity for you to interview [...]
When to Have Sex?
This is one of the most frequent questions I get from clients/readers who find themselves entering the dating world. This letter is typical: Dear Michael: [...]
Ten Ways to talk about Money and Strengthen your Relationship
The risk that any marriage will end in divorce is currently about 45 percent. According to most research, the chances fall to about 40 percent [...]
Why I Like Getting Older
If you believe advertising, getting older is a mistake, a weakness. If you get older and look older, you’ve done it wrong. This logic works [...]
Help Me Not to Hate
Dear Michael: I pride myself on being able to talk respectfully to almost everybody. I used to work as a bank teller and now I [...]
Am I A Sex Addict?
How do you know if you’re having a healthy amount of sex or if you’re overly focused (or even obsessed) with sex? Dear Michael: Last [...]
Yoga, Sex and Anxiety
In the United States, approximately 36 million adults regularly practice yoga. This represents a significant increase from previous years, with a 50% increase in practitioners [...]
Seven of Life’s Biggest Challenges
It’s not possible to go through life without dealing with challenges/problems/difficulties. The question isn’t: “Will you have to deal with them?” The question is: “How [...]
How to Fix a Saggy Sex Life
Dear Michael: I am in a ten year relationship that, in general, is really good. The problem is that the sex has virtually disappeared, even [...]
“The Best” List
For many years, I've created a list of "The Best", so clients or friends who asked me about the best dentist, doctor or insurance agent [...]
Why Psychotherapy?
Dear Michael: A friend of mine told me that he was tired of hearing me whine about the same problems over and over and [...]