What is Community?

When Gay San Diego was for sale, I wondered “What will happen to the Gay San Diego community if the paper goes under?” Luckily, Terry Sidie [...]

Love, Sex and Grindr

This column originated in questions that I’ve gotten from my clients, such as: Is it true that too much Grindr or Scruff sex makes you [...]

90 Seconds

I used to hate science in high school. In my class of 68 people (Wellington High School class of 1971), our biology teacher was completely [...]

Cry. Laugh. Feel.

Many people tell me that I don’t look my age (66). When they ask me: “What’s your secret?” I can honestly say, “Feeling your feelings [...]

The Best Sleep Ever

Sleep: beautiful, wonderful, drowsy, deep, restful sleep. Don’t we love it? Isn’t it one of the best things in life? Doesn’t it keep us well-rested, [...]

Beyond Pride

This column is the result of a question I’ve been asking myself lately: What is “beyond” pride? Another way to put it is: “What comes [...]

Don’t Suffer

I used to be in a Buddhist study group. One of the main tenets of Buddhism was: Pain is part of life; suffering is optional. [...]

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