Retire, but don’t quit
photo courtesy of nymag.com I am turning 63 this year, and am being increasingly asked by friends: “When are you going to retire?” [...]
How to have a second date
photo by youngjun coo for nymag.com I know that dating may seem to be passé, but whether you call it hanging out, “Netflix [...]
Book recommendation: “Delivering Happiness: A Path to Profits, Passion and Purpose” by Tony Hsieh, CEO of Zappos.com
I have just finished reading "Delivering Happiness: A Path to Profits, Passion and Purpose" by Tony Hsieh, CEO of Zappos.com, Inc. It is really a [...]
Are You Attracting or Pushing Away Love?
photo by youngjun coo for nymag.com Love is more easily experienced than defined. Google said that the question: “What is love?” is one [...]
“Youth” and “Spotlight”
I rarely mention movies on this website, but, recently, I saw two very powerful movies that I heartily recommend: "Youth" is an amazing, somewhat surreal [...]
How a hook-up can open your heart
What happens when you meet someone through a sexual experience and then discover that there might be more...much more. How do you turn sex into [...]
A New Definition of Peace
photo by Landon Nordeman for nymag.com Lots of people make New Year’s Resolutions. I don’t recommend them. Usually, they are impossible to keep [...]
Friendless in San Diego
photo courtesy of nymag.com Dear Michael: I don’t seem to be very good at making – or keeping – friends. I’m kind of [...]
The Power of Silence
Recently, I was asked to co-facilitate a workshop with the above title. I wasn’t sure I really wanted to do it. After all, I thought, [...]
The Double Testosterone Marriage
I am pleased to report that I have recently signed a contract to publish my new book “The Double Testosterone Marriage: Monogamy or Open Relationship?” [...]
13 Practical Ways to Lower your Stress (and be more Relaxed)
photo courtesy of nymag.com Over the years, I’ve been compiling a list of ways to lower stress. These are personal observations, great ideas [...]
Fantasy Sex
photo by Landon Nordeman for nymag.com It’s so hard not to compare ourselves to other people. No matter how hard we try, somebody [...]