Prestige, Power and Possessions
The above title came from a TED talk I watched recently. In it, the speaker - a contented, wise elder - said that only young [...]
How to Say Goodbye
I just saw the documentary “Restless Creature” at the Digital Gym in North Park. In the film, New York City Ballet star Wendy Whelen talks [...]
Hold Onto your Dreams
When I was a child, living on a farm, the nearest daily newspaper was the Elyria (Ohio) Chronicle/Telegram. I loved reading it every day and [...]
“The Gay Man’s Guide to Open and Monogamous Marriage”: an excerpt
By MICHAEL DALE KIMMEL My first book will be published on June 8th and will be available on Amazon. It has taken me more [...]
Love, friendship and Soul Mates
Have you heard people talk about their “soul mate”? This perfectly-designed person is your ideal match. God sent them just for you. There is no [...]
Realizing Your Gifts
Recently, I went to a big, fancy dinner at a friend’s house. There were about 18 people there and, as far as I know, I [...]
Consciousness, Change and Humility
This column is inspired by a phrase in a terrific book I am reading “Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life” by Jungian psychologist [...]
Do I Need Anger Management?
Dear Michael: I am embarrassed to be writing to you, but so what? I am 37 years old, and angry all the time. The weird thing [...]
Old on the Outside
Recently, a client told me: “I feel old on the outside, but so young on the inside. Why doesn’t anyone see this or understand? I [...]
Squeeze the Toothpaste (just a little)
Dear Michael: I am writing to you because I want to get some therapy, but I’m afraid to. I am a middle-aged lesbian with a [...]
How to Live
The title of this column kept tapping me on the shoulder. For three days, I tried resisting, but, my intuition prevailed; so here we are. [...]
My Peace Does Not Lie in The World
How do you find peace of mind? With so many difficult people and situations in our lives, how do we not just lose it over-and-over [...]